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LGBTQIA+ 5w
I’m trying so hard to have a relationship and live the normal life that my family sees for me. But it’s really hard to sleep next to and cuddle someone in that way when you don’t have those feelings. I just don’t feel love that way
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Anonymous 5w

it's not fair to you or them, do what makes you happy and the right people will stick around

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Anonymous 5w

You really wanna pretend for the rest of your life? It’ll kill you, you know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I was gonna say this too. Stifling your own life and happiness to meet someone elses imposed expectations not only will kill you but it most likely will not work and you are only prolonging the inevitable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

He knows how I feel and we are more just testing the waters right now. I’m trans so I think that because I’ve been struggling with gender for so long,I never really got to the sex part. I have been too afraid to do anything physical until I got top surgery, started hormones and passing. I shut down all my previous relationships if I got the feeling or knew that they saw me as a girl instead of a guy. So I missed out on all the things that come with relationships. Especially acting on attraction

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