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I hate when people arguing against he/him lesbians say “males cannot be lesbians” like I’ll automatically assume you hate trans women too because how do you say that with no reflection on how that’s word for word what transphobes say against transfems
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Anonymous 4w

people also say that it’s transphobic to say trans men can be lesbians when we just dgaf what they call THEMSELVES 🫩 huge difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

right holy shit there are trans men for whom being a lesbian is just as central to their identity as being a man. not all of us have straightforward identities that follow neatly outlined boxes... theres so much overlap and blurring. saying this as a nonbinary person whose gender identity is best described as butch despite not being a lesbian (it is butch in both a lesbian/sapphic way and an achillean/gay man way)

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