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LGBTQIA+ 14h
Said that trans women can sometimes have lingering subconscious misogynistic beliefs or tendencies from being raised as male and it’s an important conversation to have and got eaten alive on TikTok and called a terf 💔💔 how we’re raised affects us guys
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Anonymous 12h

Wait until you find out a lot of the “bird”/ victim blaming women do behaviors develop from being raised “female” Why can’t the dolls be left alone for a second on that hellscape

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Anonymous 11h

i once said that trans men don't deserve to be fully excluded from the "girls and gays" community because they experience misogyny due to how they grew up and especially if they don't pass and i too got eaten alive. it's crazy how much nuance tiktok mfs lack

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Anonymous 12h

I mean yeah but that’s true of everyone, it’s more about being raised within patriarchy than being raised “male”

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Anonymous 57m

people who are raised as girls are taught the same beliefs though…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9h

basing in on passing is a lil weird, but yeah I think “gays” in that context usually means generally queer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

trans men who don’t pass will experience misogyny. just because i see them as men does not mean the majority of people will and it’s not crazy to point out how that will affect their experiences imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8h

but anyways, a lot of cishet women do not think trans men should be considered part of the “girls and gays” because they think trans men are “still just men.” which is true… but it’s a bit ignorant to not acknowledge that the “girls and gays” became a community because of shared misogyny/homophobia. both of which trans men can relate to. i just think it’s more nuanced than implying that trans men and cis men share the same experiences with gender and misogyny when they very much don’t.

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