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LGBTQIA+ 17h
Okay so me and my partner will be partying and end up making out or just be on each other, but we’ve been tg for 3 years. One of our friends always gets uncomfortable/mad that we are and I don’t know why. My partner asked me to “not do too much”
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Anonymous 17h

Part 2 idk how to feel bc yes I get ppl have boundaries but why should I hide what I have going on for other ppl. Idc if my friends man live states away and they are alone here. Thats not my problem. Move to him or find a new man if it makes you a prune for other couples.

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Anonymous 17h

it’s a party. people make out as long as you’re not like fucking on the sofa who cares that’s a perfectly normal thing to do at a party

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Anonymous 17h

I’m just looking for general about what I should do here

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Anonymous 17h

Is their threshold for discomfort/anger different for straight people? Of course, keep in mind that they might be more upset with you if you’re consistently crossing their boundaries. And of course, incompatible boundaries are a valid reason to distance yourself from a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Yep. Our friends who are a straight couple are the same way as me and my fianceé but our other friend basically ignores them. I didn’t think it was bc we are lesbians tho bc they are with a trans man. I genuinely don’t understand why it’s only us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

They can still be homophobic. Like I don’t want to accuse your friend of anything, don’t get me wrong, but if this is a pattern then let their actions speak for themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Advice^

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

I don’t want think they are but it’s happened time and time again that they’ve judged me for showing affection to my partner. we’ve talked about it before and they said it was a joke but even after me saying I didn’t like the “joke” it’s continued as if they forgot about the conversation

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