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Male friend is planning to ask me out, how do I politely reject him? He doesn't know that im into women
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Anonymous 2w

“hey you’re a great friend, but i’m actually into women” sometimes it really is that simple

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Anonymous 2w

hit em with the "I wouldn't want to mess up our friendship"

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I'm overthinking it tbh it's scary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

honestly, if he’s a dick about it, he doesn’t deserve your friendship anyway 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

One of my friends already rejected him and they're still cool, not too worried about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

absolutely not tbh, just tell him the truth and that you are into women. i feel this would hurt way worse than being honest

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

i was assuming op didn't want to come out to him. if that's not the case then i absolutely agree with what 2 said

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I told him earlier today, he accepted it fully. Thanks for the help!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

very glad to hear it 🩵

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