LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | so how did you guys know you were queer? I’ve always believed that I was straight and i still do kind of. but I’ve been having thoughts. Idk really where else to ask this question other than here, and i don’t know what to do with myself.

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LGBTQIA+ 11w

so how did you guys know you were queer? I’ve always believed that I was straight and i still do kind of. but I’ve been having thoughts. Idk really where else to ask this question other than here, and i don’t know what to do with myself.

Anonymous 11w

the obvious question is "what kind of thoughts"

Anonymous 11w

Embrace queerness and allow yourself to be a part of it to find urself lowkey learning abt it to and like the history of sexuality and it as social organisation really helped me understand how it’s constructed and then my own self in relation to it

Anonymous

#1 11w

I met a girl at a bar. i haven’t been able to stop thinking about her since. I know it’s stupid, but i’ve never thought about a guy this much in my life. It’s weird, confusing, and it’s pissing me off. It’s more than just me wanting her to think that i’m attractive, but i want to know like everything about her. I know i should want that in every relationship, but i never really cared enough about a guy to care what he liked. I’ve dated a number of guys but this feels different.

Anonymous

OP 11w

doesn't sound very straight to me

Anonymous

#1 11w

so what the hell should i do?

Anonymous

OP 11w

come to terms with it, ig? it's not like you have to submit paperwork or anything, the literal only thing that matters is how you feel.

Anonymous

#2 10w

well I’ve learned about it and the different sexuality’s, but I won’t know if I can’t experience it. Nobody wants to be an experiment or yk anything adjacent, but how will i know. I hate not knowing but i also don’t want to make anyone feel like shit.

Anonymous

OP 10w

it’s not anyone’s obligation obviously. I’m just saying that I won’t ever know. I’ve been trying to hold myself together with just the thought that i might be queer. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings but i also don’t want to keep stressing myself out by not having an answer