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Lowkey I think I'm kind of bi/pan but I'm scared other gay ppl are gonna be mean to me about it 😭 i dont like calling myself lgbtq because i feel like a poser or something
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Anonymous 1d

You are valid!! No one should tell you otherwise. Plus most of the biphobia is online. -sincerely a bi dude :3

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Anonymous 1d

deadass the only ppl who will do that are ppl who aren't queer or they're chronically online you're not a poser and even if you're not sure of your identity, experimenting with labels and experience is the best way to figure it out

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Anonymous 11h

I’m pan and I’ll be honest you will probably experience backlash but it’s not all the time and is usually only in online spaces or idiots so just be you and love who you love. Fuck the rest

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Anonymous 1d

That’s pretty contained to the internet thankfully

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Anonymous 1d

i know a trans guy who IDs as pan cause he's into feminine identities and people shrug do whatever you want forever

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think i just tell myself it doesnt count because I am only attracted to masculine kinds of ppl. They dont have to be a man but they have to be like "the guy" or something equivalent in the relationship which is huge straight girl energy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That’s ok! You like what you like vibe is very important to attraction (in my opinion.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yes exactly. I also have a trans sibling so I don't really want to take away the light from them either. I guess im just like homophobic to myself for some reason idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yes!! Internalized homophobia is it is a pain in the ass to address. I have been there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I dont wanna address it man 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah it sucks ass ☹️

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