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what are y’alls opinions on events that are open to everyone except cis men?
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Anonymous 21w

I understand and support it, but I still dream of the day that rules like that aren’t needed. Cis men need to get their shit together

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Anonymous 21w

i find that these are usually lesbian spaces that are open to trans women and reluctant to exclude trans men

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Anonymous 21w

I think a space that requires someone to disclose their queerness is not a safe space. There are plenty of closeted trans people that want to go to these events but feel barred from doing so because their attendance is a forced outing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

as a t guy i never liked them when i was younger and didn’t pass often but now that i’m more secure i enjoy them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21w

exactly! they kind of push trans men to be more clocky than they would otherwise be so someone doesn’t get on his ass because they think he’s cis

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