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Hot take: the queer community struggles with idolizing femininity to the harm of folk of all type.
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Anonymous 9w

I think it’s overcompensation for the constant degradation of femininity in the world

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Anonymous 9w

its like DEI; it can be argued as being unfair, until you step back and realize it doesn't go far enough. Masculinity is still the only thing idolized, femininity is only idolized in a "isn't that cute" way. True femininity is rarely actually accepted as equal, much less idolized.

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Anonymous 9w

I think iconic slaying drag queens might beg to differ

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Anonymous 9w

At least western femininity

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Anonymous 9w

?? this might be a queer trans tale because feminine gay men would like a word…

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 9w

true however it’s still problematic (which you aren’t denying, I’m just clarifying)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I thought feminine gay men slayed?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Alll my bi male friends LOVE femboys. Its like.. their type of man. They dont like masc men.

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Anonymous replying to -> recursive 9w

likely bc theyre bi and like women as well as fem presenting ppl. femme gay men get so much shit from other gay men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Im a feminine man. (Genderfluid/genderqueer idk). Ive noticed only like… pan/bi women like me(i dont like men). My gay friends are super supportive and helped me when i had a breakdown about being ashamed and how i masked so bad it hurt.

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Anonymous replying to -> recursive 9w

Which totally tracks. though the sentiments differ when its time to accept our own. Im speaking mostly about attraction/partnering here. femme hate is literally the reason gays coined the term masc4masc. to weed out the guys they like to discard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Damn. Thats lame, but i guess if femme men dont do it for them? Thats kinda why i gave up on straight women. If youre not into femininity, you wont like femme men. And thats okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Also thank you for explaining this to me :)

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Anonymous replying to -> recursive 9w

of course!

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Anonymous replying to -> recursive 9w

I.. uhm.. yes? :p

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