Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Queer people, I urge you to stop making excuses for the people oppressing you. Yes, that white gay man is still a bigot. Someone’s status as a minority of any kind does not entitle them to spread the same hate used to hurt others.
upvote 949 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 23h

thank you

upvote 76 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20h

We forget accountability is also a part recognizing someone’s humanity and their capabilities to improve. No, me telling another gay man to reflect on what he said and how it was potentially bigoted is not a homophobic thing to do. In fact, it is because I actually have faith in you to do better. That ego can keep us stagnant in times where we most need change

upvote 69 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 23h

Exactly!

upvote 33 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 21h

Periodt, you ate with this one

upvote 15 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 8h

This absolutely applies to cis queer women (and cis women in general)

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 16h

I know you’re vaguing about me so I gotta ask what specifically did i do bc y’all never tell me

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20h

Preach

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 11h

I’m a major ally and the only time I’ve gotten flack is from a white gay man 😂

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #14 16h

Hey, this isn’t about you. I do not have any idea what the fuck you’re talking about. Jesus Christ.

upvote 29 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

drop an insult and the owner will pick it up

upvote 23 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #16 2h

Dude what? You know cis queer women can be poc? What are you talking about

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #6 1h

poc can also be bigoted, for the record

upvote 1 downvote