oh girl i feel you i used to have the same question but i just realized after awhile that i just can't imagine living with a man for the rest of my life...

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Does sex with men make you suicidal? Does sex with women make you feel the same way as sex with men? For me I figured out I was a lesbian and not bi when I stopped to think about how shitty I felt everytime I forced myself to be with a man

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I went a while believing I was bi, even more years believing I may just be straight but in denial and insisting I like men when I don’t, finally accepting being straight… and then I immediately got hit with a crush on a guy. So all that to say sexuality is weird, and I understand the pressure to try and make yourself like men just because there’s no active repulsion, but what happens will happen. Use whatever label you like in the meantime but only time can tell

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don’t worry about labels too much… but probably lesbian

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Typically if you are attracted to only girls then you’re lesbian, and if you are attracted to both then you’re bi. Hope this helps

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