
hi! im not in the exact same boat as you but im also a lesbian and i was sexually assaulted a few years ago and identified as asexual for a while before my current partner (not saying thats everyones experience, just mine). if you want support or just someone to talk to feel free to dm me!
I’ve identified as asexual for almost ten years now. It can be a very isolating experience, I imagine even more so if it’s as a result of SA. The biggest help for me was finding/creating a queer community that deliberately made space for everyone’s experiences and shaped the group identity around those experiences.