LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I know it in part comes from me being mentally ill but I still can’t help but feel embarrassment about the fact that I’m a bottom and a twink and kinda stereotypical. I hate that I’m exactly what people expect. I feel gross about it a lot of the time.

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

I know it in part comes from me being mentally ill but I still can’t help but feel embarrassment about the fact that I’m a bottom and a twink and kinda stereotypical. I hate that I’m exactly what people expect. I feel gross about it a lot of the time.

Anonymous 1d

And I keep seeing people talk about how having a strict top/bottom role is inherently negative and reinforces heteronormativity and it makes me feel worse. This is why I stopped going online. Sorry that I’m not perfectly versatile and balanced for all the purists on the internet. But no I’m a bottom and a twink so apparently my existence reinforces gender roles into gay relationships. I know it’s just stupid online discourse but I see it a lot and it makes me feel guilty.

Anonymous 1d

I genuinely believe you’re overthinking this because I promise no one outside the internet will care

Anonymous 1d

You sound like such a loser lmfao

Anonymous

#1 1d

People outside the internet absolutely care fym

Anonymous

#2 1d

They genuinely don’t unless they’re losers

Anonymous

OP 1d

The ones who tell you being a bottom/twink is inherently problematic are the ones who are chronically online. Their opinions aren’t worth even entertaining

Anonymous

#3 19h

What is it that makes me a loser?

Anonymous

#3 19h

Pot calling the kettle black lmfao

Anonymous

OP 17h

#2 is right, just exist in whatever way makes you happy and rest assured the people giving you shit for it aren't worth your time