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Reminder to my fellow trans men: if a man calls himself straight but is willing to date/fuck you as an “exception”, he has a fetish! Run far, far away :)
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Anonymous 5w

Or he doesn’t view you as a man the way he views cis men as men

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Anonymous 5w

i figured that out a little too late into that relationship

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Anonymous 5w

same with nonbinary!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Is it though? What if someone is attracted to fem and nb people but not masc? They might call themselves straight bc they aren’t really pan

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

a lot of the time they're against transitioning at all, especially medically, because they see their partner as a woman and don't want to change that. there are exceptions to both of these groups of people, but die-hard "i'm straight" guys often refuse to gender and pronoun their partners correctly and are super against transitioning

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Good point. Is there a label that would better describe the kind of person I’m thinking of? It would be a man who is attracted to fem and nb whether afab or amab, but just not ppl who present masc (afab or amab)? It seems like that would be somewhere between straight and pan

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

could call himself bi or just not label himself, or just be a chill guy who still calls himself straight 🤷 they definitely exist but i don't know of any widely known term for straight men who still like non binary people besides just saying they're into feminine genders

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