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How do y’all deal with living in conservative places? Its getting to me rn since its June. For context, i live in a conservative part of florida. There have been multiple hate crimes on or near my college campus (tire slashing, assault, threats, etc)
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Anonymous 13h

i’m from florida (granted the more “blue” part) and am currently living in louisiana, and a lot of it is finding your own community. institutions aren’t going to say shit about you because (especially if it’s a public university) it’s not worth it. and once you acknowledge that and sort of “cut ties” with relying on these big institutions or corporations to fight for you and start building a community with people that actually do care and do fight the world seems a bit less bleak.

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Anonymous 11h

The 2nd Amendment applies to you, too. Go out and arm yourself. Also, safety in numbers. It’s a lot harder to harm a group of armed trans people walking down the street at night. We can take lessons from the Black Panthers. 😊

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Anonymous 13h

Like 2 yrs ago a 19 y/o gay kid was beaten half to death outside of a bar .5 miles off campus and my university said nothing 🫩 I understand its more nuanced than that. I understand theres legal shit since its not our property and the kid wasnt a student. But not even an email? Not even a “heres some resources”? Nothing?

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Anonymous 11h

I left eventually it just felt like fighting wasn’t worth it and exhausting and college gave me the opportunity to seek out greener pastures

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Anonymous 10h

I live in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. The city is blue, but the state is red and one thing I’ve noticed is that red states and/or cities usually have meaner people. Not that blue states/cities such as Los Angeles, California & Boston, Massachusetts don’t have mean people either, but the gays in my area are a lot meaner and even the ones who appear to be nice aren’t.

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Anonymous 25m

Guns. Lots of guns

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

like i love my university but i know that if something happened relating to a hate crime directed at someone queer, the chances of them even acknowledging it is slim. and it’s not because they don’t care per se but more of a if they say something their funding might be jeopardized. i’ve found that living in not just a conservative state but a conservative region there IS community and love and pride, you just have to look a little harder than you’d expect

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Let me guess. Do you go to LSU like I do? They suck. They speak up for nobody not even their athletes. When Kyren Lacy passed away LSU parents and the student body spoke up about it, but LSU didn’t.

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