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How can yall genuinely be friends with your ex? Legitimately asking. I have tried and failed twice now. Gave up last time and caught feelings this time. How are you guys doing this?
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Anonymous 1d

My most recent ex and I broke up because when they started HRT they lost the feelings that they felt towards me romantically/sexually. Don’t get me wrong it fucking hurt like hell but I would never be angry over someone becoming who they truly are. I didn’t catch feelings again because I knew it wasn’t going to be reciprocated and honestly friendship is what we both needed in the end. I still text her here and there because we were together 2 years and we did become best friends

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Anonymous 1d

for me and my ex, our relationship was built on a strong friendship. We broke up due to long distance, nothing happened to that friendship. then he moved back near me and we are continuing as friends. ATP honestly we probably are qpr but hey thats chill

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Anonymous 1d

get over them and THEN start talking as friends

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Anonymous 1d

u don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ur a very good person, your person will come

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23h

Oh yeah!! I have been with my current partner for almost 2 years now!! ☺️ I hope that they are the one tbh. She’s been so great to me. She even got me a promise ring 🥹 They said that they do want to progress our relationship too! I did tell them that there is no need in rushing it because I want her to do it when she feels comfortable and can see that we are in a good spot financially. My Ex and I broke up summer of 24 and i actually met my current partner fall of 24 +

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

We got together 24 winter! But we had a lot of deep conversations to make sure what we were doing was right for us and it seems to be going well! ☺️

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