
my mom has a trans friend and my dad is very “live & let live,” but from the things they say they don’t really *get* not wanting someone in those ways (though they’d be chill if it’s in an allo queer way). idk, my SA set back me realizing I was aroace by years, but I really did know the whole time, & that’s an important part of the narrative to me. but I feel like that’s two bombshells I might never be ready to drop…