yeah you never know who gets called what in our lifetime! im trans and have been called it a ton. your comfort doesn't mean much when i've earned my stripes. slur police.

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you made a blanket statement about women... but you should never assume someone's experience just because they're female or cis/straight presenting...

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Anonymous ellie 26w

and obviously slurs should never be used derogatorily.

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dawg why are you purposely replying to the worst possible interpretation. Its almost like you’re just trying to start an argument or something

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if you come up making a fuss about me saying a slur in public just be prepared for me to hash it out like i'm doing here. you know what they say about assumptions

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For the record, although your tone is a bit aggressive I think what you’re saying makes perfect sense. I personally feel uncomfortable with anyone using slurs (in a non-meta-linguistic way) whether they can reclaim them or not, and I don’t really hang around people who do. If you feel uncomfortable with women using the f-slur that’s totally valid. I don’t think your interpretation of the comments is straw-manned like #2 indicated, but again I think your tone is a bit harsher than needed.

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