Anonymous #1 1w

Find something else to do with your life

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Anonymous OP 1w

This is just one thing I've done

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Anonymous #1 1w

Find a fucking hobby.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I've got many. It does take that much time or energy to post on social media

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Anonymous #1 1w

You clearly need some new ones. And therapy.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Not really

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Anonymous #1 1w

Oh, you do. Quit obsessing over and hating on people you don’t understand just because you refuse to get over your own bullshit.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I'm not really obsessed or hating lol

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Anonymous #1 1w

You are, though. And it’s getting old. Find a new fucking hobby, dude.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I'm not though lol I made 1 post. Do you know how many things I think in a day?

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Anonymous #1 1w

Get. A. New. Hobby.

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Anonymous #2 1w

This. Isn't. My. Hobby. Lol

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Anonymous #1 1w

It clearly is. Find a new hobby, shrimp dick.

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Anonymous #2 1w

How is it clearly a hobby? Do you know what a hobby is?

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Anonymous #1 1w

Yeah, just about anything that is not obsessing over lesbian dudes can be a hobby. So find something else to do.

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Anonymous #5 1w

What?

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Anonymous OP 1w

The identity label of lesbian is used both because people feel a personal connection to the community and also to describe your experiences with attraction to others. If someone feels their experiences with attraction are best described as lesbian then that’s how it’s best described. And T-boys identifying as lesbian does not change the power of the word lesbian to describe sapphic relationships or an alignment with the lesbian community.

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Anonymous #5 1w

What side are you on here

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yours. I’m saying the op of the original post is making a big deal out of nothing.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Ok I was so confused because I thought you misunderstood me and was arguing with me even though it sounded like we’re saying the same thing 😭 glad I’m just tired and a lil stupid

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Anonymous #5 1w

Okay but my question is how can you say your experiences with attraction are best described as lesbian if none of us can come to an understanding on what lesbian even means? Like what about how you experience attraction makes you a lesbian if it's not that you're a girl who only likes girls? And this isn't even me trying to be combative, this is just genuinely where the disconnect is.

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Anonymous #1 1w

I want to be seen as butch and kiss butches. Those butches identify as lesbians. I like hanging around self identified lesbians and feel like I identify with that. Idk how to describe it. I just know that I seek out spaces that call themself lesbian spaces

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Anonymous #1 1w

I think a big disconnect here is the idea that identity labels have to have clear definitions. They don’t, living beings can’t be easily categorized like that, there is always nuance and exceptions. If you’ve met lesbians, or read things posted by lesbians, or read books about lesbians, or seen movies about lesbians then you have an idea of what lesbian experiences look like. What I assume when someone says they’re a lesbian is that they’ve probably experienced some amount of discrimination

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Anonymous #1 1w

Because of their gender, are attracted to people who either align themselves with a more feminine gender identity or other people with similar experiences around gender discrimination, and feel like they belong in lesbian community spaces.

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Anonymous #1 1w

The big thing really is that the person feels they belong to the lesbian community. If they identify with this label, then this is the group of people that they belong to. There’s no reason to gatekeep that community from other queers who are just existing and being respectful community members, even if their experiences don’t fit perfectly into the definitions on the lgbt wiki

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