Funny story to the contrary. I'm a trans guy, just moved, joined an lgbt-friendly church. Generally, ppl say I pass as cishet. Today, someone told me to give them my email to be added to the "LGBTQIA+ game night" list. He did not ask. He knew ๐
Was he queer bc I mean we just know. You know this.
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Anonymous6w
*People where I used to live say they generally thought I was cishet. The way others see my gender and sexuality seems to vary wildly and I really don't present myself differently in different contexts.
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Anonymous#16w
He was. I also have a long and rough history of being seen as cishet by other queer people ๐ญ including my friends in college, when we all lived in the explicitly gay dorm together. As in. Housing for only LGBTQ+ people. It was... funny but also ๐ญ