
I am an extreme example, not all ace people are like me, but I have no sexual attraction, no urges no desires, people aren’t really physically attractive for me in the same way, the thought of sex or sexual activities makes me very uncomfortable and anxious, when my parents had “the talk” with me I almost had a panic attack, no all asexuals are completely repulsed by sex, but if you never have any thoughts or impulses about it then you’re ace
so I actually enjoy sex but I have zero sexual attraction to other people. nothing about anybody's appearance has ever aroused me or like intrigued me yk some ace people don't like sex, some do like it, or some may only engage in certain ways, there's no wrong way to be asexual. it's just about whether you experience sexual attraction to others