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how do yall know when you’re ace??
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Anonymous 2w

I am an extreme example, not all ace people are like me, but I have no sexual attraction, no urges no desires, people aren’t really physically attractive for me in the same way, the thought of sex or sexual activities makes me very uncomfortable and anxious, when my parents had “the talk” with me I almost had a panic attack, no all asexuals are completely repulsed by sex, but if you never have any thoughts or impulses about it then you’re ace

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Anonymous 2w

i think bodies are gross

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Anonymous 2w

so I actually enjoy sex but I have zero sexual attraction to other people. nothing about anybody's appearance has ever aroused me or like intrigued me yk some ace people don't like sex, some do like it, or some may only engage in certain ways, there's no wrong way to be asexual. it's just about whether you experience sexual attraction to others

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Anonymous 2w

when i think about sex with another person it seems icky and wrong and completely puts me off. it’s something i just never want to do. ofc there are aces that have sex and enjoy it too, but i’m not one of those

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah this too, Im not aromantic so I will date people but skin on and skin contact is very uncomfortable to me and seeing peoples bodies is as well , its like scarring

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

yess this is how i experience it. i dont experience sexual attraction but yess sex

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