
That doesn’t mean she needs to write every one of her books about two GUYS, if you can’t differentiate writing some books about personal experiences and writing porn novels only focus on two MALES then idk find help? Also her being queer has no correlation to her having the same experiences as a gay male
Like this isn’t the oppression olympics, your response to a group of people being fetishized should not be “well ___ blank has it worse so your issues don’t matter” both of these things are real problems and discussing one does not automatically diminish the importance of the other
I mean gay men definitely are being fetishized. Just because there’s other issues in the world, doesn’t mean it’s not something that’s real and harming people. We should talk about the fetishization of lesbians too. That’s an important topic worthy of discussion. Both things can simultaneously be problems