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It’s really hard to try and explore my gender identity when everything I do is called performative
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Just wanted to say (very late) that you're not alone on this. My gf and I are both trans and everything we do, by ourselves or with each other, gets some comment about how we're either doing smth stereotypical to our AGAB or stereotypical for our gender identities. It’s tiring & gets really hard to sort out how we actually want to be

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