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LGBTQIA+ 1w
is it normal/okay to want to be treated like a girlfriend in a relationship when i’m a gay m*le or am i actually just trans…
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Anonymous 1w

can you elaborate on what you mean by this? because if you mean like being taken care of, having someone else take the lead, etc then I think that's pretty normal actually. like I'm a woman who's been with men and even those straight guys have said they love being in that kind of position sometimes being submissive is not equivalent to being a women. that is just gender roles and stereotyping

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

that’s a great point actually. i think what i really want is to be taken care of/have someone else take the lead, which definitely doesn’t equate to being a woman. i guess i still have some of my own internalized stereotypes and gender roles that i need to work thru, so thank u for sharing :) it rly helps

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ofc!! but i think we all have some internalized gender roles we need work through it's been ingrained in us since birth, so don't feel too bad about that

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