
How is this “whimsy” Also yeah! Words do make me mad. Welcome to the real world where words hold meaning and power. If someone called my best friend a racial slur that would make me feel very angry. Using the same arguments racists use to defend their use of slurs is not very “whimsical”!
And if literally everything else about this partner were perfect, I bet OP wouldn’t be coming on yik yak to ask if they should run lol (and again, if everything else is perfect and OP is still questioning, this must be a big deal to them and they both deserve someone they’re more compatible with)