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I want to put myself out there more romantically, so I’m thinking about downloading a dating app. The issue is that I’m transmasc/nonbinary (non-passing) and asexual (sex-repulsed), so my options are severely limited. Thoughts and suggestions?
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Anonymous 5w

Oh I’d actually love to talk to someone about being asexual and sex-repulsed if you’re open to it. I might also make a separate post ab it if you’re not comfortable with that. I’ve been openly asexual for my whole life and I’ve always HATED the feeling I get when people look at my in a sexual manner. Is this what being sex repulsed is? Sorry if you don’t want to expand on it

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Anonymous 5w

I’m in a very similar boat! Transmasc, gay, and asexual!! I’ve been in dating apps for about a year and have had more matches than expected!! It makes it a lot harder but you know if you find someone you have a better chance of meshing!

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Anonymous 5w

never been on a dating app so ig go to one with a lot of queer people and make it clear you're asexual?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Kinda yeah, but it’s more being repulsed by the idea of participating in sexual activity. Like I can dress sexy and have my sexiness acknowledged without wanting to do the sex, you know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Which apps would you recommend?

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