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I’ve watch so many videos trying to figure out my sexuality, all the signs of me being lesbian are there. But I feel like none of them are valid because I can’t remember ever having a crush to back them up.
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Anonymous 1w

You like who you like—you can use the term lesbian even if you don’t get crushes or you’re aromantic

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Anonymous 1w

Lowkey… watch some lesbian porn and see if u like it or not Unless ur like asexual

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Anonymous 1w

you don’t really need to have a crush to think you might be lesbian. I’m aroace tho and thought I was a non-straight sexuality just bc I didn’t like women (more than men) before realizing I just didn’t like anyone that way lol

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Anonymous 2d

I've never had a crush, in the traditional sense- I'm a lesbian going into the 2nd year of my relationship, and very happy- it's harder for me to form romantic bonds but when they're there, they're there. Sexuality and romantic attraction aren't the same thing!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I mention my own sexuality since I have had crushes in the past but they turned out to be very intense platonic crushes & not anything romantic/sexual. just food for thought

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