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LGBTQIA+ 4w
BDSM is abuse without consent and communication!! Stay kinky, practice harm reduction, and speak up!!
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BDSM doesn’t create abuse, abusers create abuse. Stay safe, stay kinky, but most importantly, stay silly
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I would argue though that without consent / comms that it isn’t even BDSM anymore, that’s just r*pe, and that’s not a problem of BDSM, that’s a problem of r*pists/abusers

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