LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I have some complicated feelings about sex in my relationship. It’s largely centered around my partner’s pleasure — and we both like it that way — but I do find myself wishing it was a bit *more* about me

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LGBTQIA+ 3w

I have some complicated feelings about sex in my relationship. It’s largely centered around my partner’s pleasure — and we both like it that way — but I do find myself wishing it was a bit *more* about me

Anonymous 3w

Talk to them

Anonymous 3w

And I think I sometimes also need to be a little more selfish and try harder to make it about me. But I also kinda wish they would notice when I haven’t come and offer because I do that for them

Anonymous 3w

While there’s some thing I think my partner could be doing more of (like I don’t always come during sex and I’m almost always the initiator of foreplay), I know a big part of it is how much dysphoria I still have with my body as a trans man

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OP 3w

It feels really uncomfortable to try new stuff for me because so much of it feels feminine or submissive which is not something I am into at all. Even my partner trying to give me a handjob reminds me I don’t have a dick so much so I can’t orgasm from it