Yeah I dislike when this happens. I don’t like the question people’s sexualities but this certainly makes me question

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Idk i think sometimes straight women appropriate bi identity because the social capital it brings them benefits them. Their bf thinks its hot and they feel special, but they arent involved in our community and never will be. It frustrates me as a bi person

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Bro ive dealt with people like this, they way they defend their bfs behavior or general homophobia/ignorance from the straight community is so exhausting to be around

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You can be attracted to women but have no desire to date them for whatever reason. If you’re attracted to multiple genders, you fall under the label of bisexual.

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You should bury her bf in the dirt under some cardboard and mulch on top

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It doesn’t make her less bisexual, and if she doesn’t want to be with a woman that’s valid and up to her. But the homophobic boyfriend part means she’s probably self hating and it contextualizes the rest of her preferences etc

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i don’t like questioning people’s identities but either she makes questionable decisions or she’s lying.

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If she’d “never be with a woman” she either had a bad experience or just wants to be a part of the community but isn’t actually queer.

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I mean I think if it's like she'd never be in a relationship with a woman but would hook up with or go on dates with women, it's probably from the standpoint of "it's easier to be in a straight relationship in this society than it is to be in a gay one and idc that much about being gay to voluntarily make my life harder" which I don't think is that crazy. Homophobic bf is a whole separate problem but I mean POCs date racist people all the time so what can you do

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opposite of this but I know someone who's bi but refuses to ever date men again due to previous trauma. but that doesn't seem to be what's going on here, in this case it seems more like internalized homophobia

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