LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | hot take: there's nothing wrong with being more into trans ppl than same gender cis ppl, even as a cis person. the issue w chasers is when they treat it as a fetish & are ashamed to have an actual romantic relationship w a trans person.

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LGBTQIA+ 3w

hot take: there's nothing wrong with being more into trans ppl than same gender cis ppl, even as a cis person. the issue w chasers is when they treat it as a fetish & are ashamed to have an actual romantic relationship w a trans person.

Anonymous 3w

Chasers are definitely a big problem but i honestly think alot of trans ppl have internalized transphobia and find it hard to believe that anyone would be attracted to them if not just to fetishize them

Anonymous 3w

just finding trans ppl more attractive than the same gender of cis ppl isnt actually wrong, its called having a type. trans ppl of one agab may have similar features to other trans ppl w that agab. if a straight guy is into tall women with strong facial features, he might tend to be more into trans women. if a straight woman is into guys with softer faces & less interest in PIV sex, she might go for trans guys. thats FINE if you're not acting like it's inherently taboo just to like trans ppl imo

Anonymous 3w

no literally like i know plenty of other trans people who have a preference for cis people and nobody bats an eye (except for like weird trans separatists ig) but the second a cis person dates more than one trans person they're getting called a chaser?

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#2 3w

amd honestly it's demoralizing as hell to be told over and over, even implicitly, that for any cis person to be attracted to me they have to have a fetish. like damn man might as well just straight up say that you think being trans makes me unfuckable. you don't have to dance around it. (especially since i feel like most of the time it's cis queer ppl saying this stuff not other trans ppl. it really feels like some queers just think we're all inherently unattractive and they're projecting lol)