Anonymous OP 4w

Hot take but don’t feel bad for having some level of expectation of sexual reciprocity in a heteroSEXUAL, homoSEXUAL, biSEXUAL, etcSEXUAL relationship. Ofc people are allowed to not want sex, but to never have intimacy with a partner is wild and hurtful.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Wild and hurtful unless the expectation and boundary was set beforehand that the partnership was completely romantic, which in this case it wasn’t. Added this so my statement didn’t seem like it was against asexuality.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Dunno who downvoted this but if you don’t want to have sex like ever, don’t get into a sexual relationship. I fear that’s common sense actually, I remove my “hot take” from earlier.

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Anonymous #1 4w

i dont mind the not having sex but this change came abruptly. i’ll try to initiate but i get a bo every single time. we’ve had so many conversations cause i was internalizing that she wasnt attracted to me but we’ve been together a year and a half and she looks at me the EXACT same

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Anonymous #1 4w

it went from 3x a week or more at the VERY beginning which is normal to now maybe just maybe us getting once a month. i completely understand her schedule but she goes every time “no baby im tired” and i leave the issue alone but if im going through the same schedule and leave energy over for her and she doesnt do the same that makes me feel some typa way

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Anonymous OP 4w

and as of late, she has been in that phone incessantly watching tiktok or texting her friends like nonstop barely giving me attention. she’ll be on that phone when she walks, walks in the street, in the car while im talking and come back a minute later and i’ll have to repeat my conversation cause i thought she was listening and theres more but tbh im just tired of it

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Anonymous OP 4w

i respect her more than myself 99% of the time so its like if theres a no, im cool but if its a no 100% of the time its just like damn nothing? when did this happen

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Anonymous OP 4w

and imma be honest, she is the love of my life. if i was dealing w this in the last i wouldve been left

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