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LGBTQIA+ 3w
I have this girl that I’m weirdly down bad for. We snap 24/7, but she’s kinda dry whenever I bring up conversation. We’ve hung out in person once and she said she’s wanting to pursue something. The effort ain’t there, but I’m down bad. Advice?
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Anonymous 3w

This is kind of vague but like it doesn't sound like you have anything to lose. Just don't rush to get into an exclusive relationship until the three month trial ends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

To make sure you're not walking into a toxic one-sided thing. But that's my rule befor all committed relationships so

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Very vague, but I had a word limit. She’s just very nonchalant (which as an avoidant is lowkey great) but like almost too nonchalant. I’m just having a hard time deciding if I should bring it up or just let it play out

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