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LGBTQIA+ 4d
I’m a firm believer in “you don’t get to complain about the choices you willingly made while being fully aware of the consequences.”
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Anonymous 3d

Honestly. No. Sometimes you make hard choices that are going to have unpleasant consequences regardless of what choice you make. Complaining about inevitable distress seems perfectly valid to me. Likewise when the choice you make has a weighty enough benefit to be worth the distress. Doesn’t make the distress go away for it to be worth it, and I don’t think it’s fair to be like “you chose this; shut the fuck up,” when even though there was a reason for the choice it still came with downsides.

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Anonymous 3d

lol you’re acting like you had some epiphany while the rest of the world has been yelling this at you since you’ve been born. where have you been queen?

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Anonymous 3d

Literally

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Anonymous 3d

is this about voting?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I fear you don’t know what OP is referring to…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I fear that speaking generally is going to result in general speech

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I suppose, although based on current media and the yikyak group this is posted under the context is there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Honestly I’m so wrapped up in foreign policy I have no idea what’s being referenced

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I’m speaking generally

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I’m not talking about hard choices. I’m talking about general and basic things where someone makes a poor decision and knows the consequences and then does it anyways. Having the audacity to complain about a situation you put yourself in that you could’ve easily avoided is just…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

This isn’t about current events.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Oh then this was an interesting choice of yikyak groups to post this under lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

That’s what I thought too.. especially since they put it under the lgbtq group

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Why so sensitive? This wasn’t an epiphany, this was a PSA/hot take. Calm down or get out of

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

Not necessarily, no.

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