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Genuine question: is it valid to identify as a woman but prefer they/them pronouns? Hypothetically Idk… having an identity crisis but I love gender neutral pronouns for myself no matter what :,)
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Anonymous 5d

absolutely!!!! pronouns do not equal gender, the same way that your clothes and expression do not define what label you have to use

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Anonymous 5d

pronouns ≠ gender so hell yeah

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Anonymous 4d

You can do whatever you want forever

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Anonymous 3d

Yesss just be youu

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

also there’s lesbians (butch, non-binary, & otherwise) who go by they/them or he/him—along with similarly-gendered nouns—so dw about being alone in this

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