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My brother ruined his relationship w me bc he’s homophobic n attacked me over it💀 n now I keep feeling pressure from all sides of my family to just “forgive n forget”. They dunno abt the homophobia, but they literally witnessed him try to attack me??
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Anonymous 6w

fuck your family for enabling joint

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Anonymous 6w

Like how tf am I supposed to forgive n forget?? It’s been like 5 yrs since he did what he did, and only recently have I somehow FINALLY gotten through to ppl that EYE am not the one who is responsible for “fixing” things. Why is it so hard to accept that I’m not gonna forgive someone who attacked me????

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Anonymous 6w

My family told me to forgive and forget when I came out ab my brother SAing me. Families will do anything to ignore something that will break their perception of their children. For me, I made the decision to prioritize my safety and removed myself from my family. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done but I couldn’t be happier. You can try reach your family on this issue, but sometimes people don’t want to listen to the truth. Please stay safe xxx

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Anonymous 6w

Your brother burned that bridge, you don’t need to reach out to him. If anything he has to be the one repairing that bridge.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

*him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

don’t forgive that hoe. attack him back

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