
when i finally worked up the courage to go to an obgyn the fact that my gender was marked as “M” in the healthcare system made them literally unable to access my file. i had to wait 30 minutes for them to figure it out and be able to examine me. my doctor was a sweetheart and super understanding but it’s a good example of how absolutely nothing is built with us in mind
No fr they see some bottom growth and act like it’s a whole new set of foreign anatomy. Like have you never seen an enlarged clitoris before, I feel like gynecologists love to talk about how they’re tolerant of a wide range of anatomy right up until it’s attached to someone who presents vaguely masculine