“Androgynous” and “outwardly queer presentation” is 1000% subjective. Using gender neutral pronouns creates more inclusive vocabulary. This take implies that nb people owe you androgyny. They do not.

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Don’t make me bring back the “did you just assume my gender/sexuality?” Queer people, and specifically nonbinary people, don’t look a certain way.

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What’s the difference between this and “she has no femininity?”

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It’s called being considerate? Well.. there’s also the possibility the person doesn’t want to accidentally offend tbh

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Yeah I get it. Have a friend who sounds pretty masc and all they do is talk about objectifying women. They even say a lot of queer slurs. Just makes me uncomfy because they’re almost indistinguishable from a straight man in all things but name

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