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LGBTQIA+ 16h
Malgendering and degendering trans men is a huge issue in the LGBTQ+ community and nobody wants to talk about it
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Anonymous 16h

“You’re a man now, so…” “You wanted to be a man/if you want to be a man so bad” “Trans men truly are the men of the trans community” “If you think you’re a man, I’ll treat you like one” “Trans men should not be involved in feminism/discussions of women’s issues”

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Anonymous 15h

Happens all the time with me and my dad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

This especially about the feminism part cuz trans men should be involved in reproductive health conversations?? Like hello obviously

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

I'm a trans fem and this is one of the things that shitheads do to trans people that pisses me off the most because it's SO normalized like holy shit. i still remembering using they/them pronouns for my abusive ex and my cis friends said "it's ok you can say it was a man," then when i said they were transmasc the friends said "oh so THAT'S why he transitioned" | was fuming because they GENUINELY thought that was "supportive" and "feminist." just one example, too.

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