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LGBTQIA+ 1w
this is such an awful take LMFAO “i have to date men bc i can’t find any women who are career oriented enough” is just repackaged 1950s sexism. especially when young men are statistically more likely to be unemployed
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Anonymous 1w

not to mention ops comment reinforcing the idea that traditionally feminine interests are worthy of mockery and not real jobs 🥀 girl it’s 2026

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Anonymous 1w

Not to mention you typically are what you attract…. regardless of gender or sexuality if you find yourself constantly and willingly tangled up with losers it’s likely because you are one.

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Anonymous 1w

don't men have lower educational attainment AND lower employment rates atp?

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Anonymous 1w

Is this the same “lesbian” in quant? I think this girl just fell into the same “dating men is easier” junk to cope with the fact she just didn’t know herself as much as she thought she did, its really not impossible to find a career oriented queer woman like a lot of people think, but you’re not exactly gonna find that on tinder, I do think some of it is dating burnout, and thats ok, ive went through it too, but the solution is to stay single for a bit not jump into dating men impulsively,

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Anonymous 1w

What does career options have to do with someone’s sexuality??? Like what are they on about 😭

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Anonymous 1w

I don't have to date men and I don't even only date men lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

They're not real jobs because they don't pay money lol it's not mocking feminine interests

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

they can pay money, though. it is just mocking feminine interests.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

sure jan

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Sure, they can. They don't though lol. It's not mocking feminine interests, I'm a woman with feminine interests, I just also have a job that pays money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

They can actually make even more money than a typical job…..

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

you don't act like you do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Sure, they can! They don't though!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

You don't even know me lol wdym I don't act like I do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

ur all over yikyak spreading sexist talking points like an unemployed. if it walks like a duck...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

They do tho. They just won’t date you bc they are famous bc it paid off….

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Good for them then I guess lol but I'm not running into celebrities at the bar or on hinge lmao like be real for 2 seconds

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Hey so it is real. Sorry they don’t go for you tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I don't need them to, I go for people with real jobs :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Hey so “real job” also gives off elitist. If you make money it’s a “real job”. Also the ones I’m talking about make more money than you probably ever will. Keep judging tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

"real jobs" excluding jobs that center around feminine interests, yikes. you keep digging your hole deeper

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

god you must be starving for attention to be posting shit like this lmafo. you’re actually so pathetic its hilarious. maybe you cant find a lesbian to love to due in part to this horrible additude you have

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

This might sound cruel and it’s really not my intention, but just like how she doesn’t see most queer women (her words not mine) as long term relationship prospects, a lot of the women that she would be interested in wouldn’t see her for anything long term either, but as long as she’s happy doing what she’s doing I really don’t care but she just needs to accept her sexuality and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> fatassratinasombrero 1w

I never said anything to suggest your sexuality dictates your career options

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

nah you just wrongly applied your anecdotal experience and biases to an entire group to say that a bunch of gay women don't have "real" jobs or career ambitions because you dated broke artists. not sure which is worse tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

who said you have to date them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

The literal post you're commenting on

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I literally did not apply it to an entire group lol. And I didn't date "broke artists" I dated college students when I was a college student. I think graduated and started dating people who are more career oriented and that includes men. Like sorry but a lot of gay girls in this city actually are anti capitalist and consider it "selling out" to get a real job that pays real money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

*I then graduated

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s not true

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