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All my life I’ve been someone’s second choice and I’m so tired of it. I do so much for others without a second thought but I feel like no one would do the same for me. I’m always the backup.
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Anonymous 4w

i feel you very very hard

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Anonymous 4w

Backup is better than not even being chosen at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

both bad in different ways, I think. not being chosen is more honest. less getting your emotions played with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree, it’s less of a waste of time if someone isn’t getting my hopes up. I’ve just had so many situations where I’ve had people make plans and when the desirable people decide they can’t go, I’m the only one left and then usually everyone else decides to not go on with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The way I’m in my 20s and have never been kissed or asked on a date. I feel unlovable and I know I’m not conventionally attractive so people don’t go for me like they do for others 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

most people aren't conventionally attractive. plenty of fish in the sea. just gotta meet people, that's step one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I meet people and they’re always taken or just wanna be friends. I’m last pick where I live because of how I look and I’ve come to terms with that. I just need to get outta hear and to somewhere where people like me are respected

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I understand you completely, my best friend finds people where she goes and I don’t even know how it feels to be wanted romantically. I think when the time comes I’ll just think it’s a joke 😭

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