I’m a trans guy and I’ve had a bit of an ongoing struggle with my partner where I don’t come a lot of the time during sex. They’re wonderful, but not really interested in giving me handjobs or anything so the only time I come is if they’re up for a bj 😭
I’m also not the most comfortable jerking myself off in front of them, it kinda just gives me dysphoria, so I’m not sure what other solutions might be. Any suggestions are seriously appreciated