LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | Me, a lesbian: *excited to see that someone finally swiped on my dating profile* Me: *sees it’s a man looking to fulfill a fantasy* Me: :(

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

Me, a lesbian: *excited to see that someone finally swiped on my dating profile* Me: *sees it’s a man looking to fulfill a fantasy* Me: :(

Anonymous 1d

Yeah. I had a woman I was really excited about and she was cute. Then she called me and I was so nervous ahhh and I was soooo hopeful this time! Then, she asked me about having her boyfriend join…. The bf who was never mentioned…. I cried so hard after that phone call and I said okay and acted like I was cool with it. I was definetly not okay. I just did not expect that and didn’t know how to react. It was so heartbreaking and I’ll never forget it. Life is so hard as a lesbian.

Anonymous

#1 23h

No seriously!! And I was so excited since I haven’t been getting many matches or likes yet (I’ve gotten one match so far, but I’ve swiped on a lot of profiles so it felt like a jab to my ego lol) and so far, almost all of the profiles that liked me first were either straight up men who labelled their gender as “woman” so that they could be seen by more sapphic women (and no, I literally mean men who put their gender as “woman” and then put in their bio “I’m just a guy looking to be with—

Anonymous

OP 23h

—[X amount] of women”) or women who swipe on my profile with the hopes that I could be a third for her and her boyfriend since I put on my profile that I enjoy ethical non-monogamy (while also having on there that I’m a lesbian, but who cares right?). But I’m so sorry that happened to you, that sucks!