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LGBTQIA+ 2w
My problem with chronically online queers in our community is they make problems seem so much worse than they are irl. No— lesbians and bi women are not fist fighting in the streets. Irl, we generally, ya know, enjoy each others companies.
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Anonymous 2w

Like chronically online queers are so forefront in our online spaces youd swear bi women and lesbians are dueling each other in hand to hand combat, but in reality we r just chilling, maybe discussing our feelings but in a much healthier way

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Anonymous 2w

this goes for a lot of things but i think its just the nature of online message boards

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Anonymous 2w

Idk what’s wrong with my college but our irl queer community is practically dominated by this type of shit. It’s like a bad discord server came to life and I am baffled this could happen. I blame 4chan, Reddit, and Discord for fucking people up

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Anonymous 2w

why would lesbians and bi women even fight cant they just kiss or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Very real

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I blame our parents for not monitoring our internet usage in the 2000s 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I think its useful to discuss our problems but purely in a healthy way which is not the case for any chronically online discourse: its all “LESBIANS HATE BISEXUALS” “BISEXUALS ALL HATE LESBIANS” when in real life we r all “hi how are you” “and oh why do you feel that way” when someone mentions a particular problem they have noticed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Real, I hate hearing incel talk so mainstream nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I was once discussing irl why one of my insecurities is being left by a man due to the role that patriarchy plays in all relationships and I got told that I just need to kiss more bi women and it’s like so frustrating when people say this when we are discussing real issues like the role of patriarchy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yea, like we face the same issues for the most part, its patriarchy, no need to fight other women over it

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