
Also genital preference isn’t really valid when it’s about someone who likes both genitals by default. I don’t understand that reasoning at all. Perfectly fine to be a lesbian who doesn’t like penises or a gay man who doesn’t like vaginas, but when you’re bi and you say you’re attracted to cis men and women (and therefore their genitals) it makes zero sense
Okay I gotcha! Yeah I agree, it’s sad and just blatantly transphobic. It’s definitely valid in some cases, but I know a lot of cis, single-gender attracted people will still reject a trans person who checks all those boxes. You don’t have to be attracted to every trans person but there’s a certain point where the constant rejections raise red flags