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There is no “default”
IMO bisexual is the most common default, society makes people lean forwards straight. But I’m sure there’s many who just naturally are dul straight or gay. BUT I think a lot more straight people would be bi if it was normalized
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Anonymous 2d

Ur right, default was wrong wording. That’s on me. I meant there’s a lot of people who would be more comfortable exploring bisexuality and perhaps finding it to be their truth if it weren’t our society. I have a lot of straight friends who said if they were raised differently they would likely have explored it, and mainly are straight for the norm.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

A specific discussion was heterosexuality being so prominent is most romance in media is depicted as such. So they wouldn’t recognize homosexual romances or sexual interest as easy as they haven’t been able to identify it. Hence why so many queer individuals have confusion when coming out because they didn’t know what this feeling was as a kid that now they realize is homosexuality. A lot of people also always knew in a way but couldn’t identify it till later. I think queer anthropology is cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Ohhhhh ok this makes more sense

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