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LGBTQIA+ 4w
Being straight sounds terrifying? Just over heard my ex girlfriend say she knows her bf can kill her and she’s just trusting he won’t. I’m a girl- I’m happy that that’s what she’s reduced the “safety” to but my gosh. That sounds disgusting…
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Anonymous 4w

tbf, every time a car drives by you, you know the driver could kill you, and you’re trusting they won’t. Most of our society relies on trusting that people don’t want to kill people. I would hope that people know their partner better than strangers too.

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Anonymous 4w

That was my mindset with my abusive ex. I could definitely be projecting a bit here but are you sure she’s in a healthy situation?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

yeah I hope so. I honestly think the problem is he jokes about throwing her around and such like actively day dreams and tells us about it. The other issue is he only dates people who are newly out of relationships almost within the week

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ah.. yeah that’s a bit strange

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeahhh she likes him. Most our friends thinks he’s going to hurt her. I ended up blocking because he’s called me a slur and he’s Japanese-American (white) and she’s found it appropriate so I gave up. I wish them luck. My main point was just I say “ahh men” and stay away for safety and she (and other people who like men romantically) say “ahh men” and actively go for them. Love the Bi-sexuals, I guess I just wanted a better explanation to this situation, but I guess some people just prefer it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yeah, I’m bi but don’t understand that kind of dynamic either But people like what they like, some might interpret that as dominance and enjoy it that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Mm that’s fair. Thank you! I guess I mostly wish she’d stop telling me about him as an ex but I just blocked her after he called me a slur

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Her father was super abusive and honestly she hurt me physically a bit but I left as soon as and then all the other stuff happened with her being love bombed. They said I love you after two days. They’re a straight couple she met him two days before they said I love you and only hung out 10 of those hours. with space- I was her first healthy relationship and we ended it because she assaulted me and I had therapy and they told me to end it for safety reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Im so sorry you went through that OP :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Ohhh i’m so okay. I have a LOVELY support system. I just hate her now and the situation is interesting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It’s good you have a great support system. Those are so important <3 :)

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