I hate it when my mom tells me to open up and talk to my family more. I know damn well if I did, they would become disgusted and probably gossip about me because I’m queer. I don’t trust most of them FOR A REASON.
You can always test the waters by saying how sad you are your friend came out to their family and their family rejected them. Be like “can you believe that, hating your child for being gay. It’s awful” I did it with my family