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i’ve been a lesbian for 6 years yall… how and why am i so attracted to a MAN 😭😭😭😭 i don’t know what changed and i lowkey feel so embarrassed and guilty. anyone experience this before
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Anonymous 1w

You could be bi with an overwhelming preference for women! Don’t feel guilty though, you can’t control it and it doesn’t make you any less sapphic

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Anonymous 1w

Sexuality is fluid :)

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Anonymous 1w

to me its like how in nature nothing is really 100% anything. life fills the role thats needed to be filled. but also i think of how i definitely have hints of romantic feelings towards a lot of my friends, regardless of gender, even if i would never date them. types of attraction can have a lot of overlap and it can be very fun to differentiate once you realize your own patterns

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Anonymous 1w

There’s nothing to be embarrassed or feel guilty about… you like who you like, sometimes our labels just don’t cover that as labels can simplify things so much. You could date him and nothing would stop you from identifying as a lesbian still, it’s not like it’s some exclusive club, it’s just a personal chosen label

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Anonymous 1w

Hey! I’m FTM, and I identified as a lesbian (straight after I came out as trans) for YEARS. It took me 20 years to meet a man I thought was worth my time. I haven’t met another one since. You can be bisexual and have a STRONG preference toward women. You can also continue to call yourself a lesbian if you feel that still describes you. The point of labels is to make life easier, not more confusing.

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