Anonymous #3 2w

Who?

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Anonymous OP 2w

op im agreeing with you, im talking about all the people arguing with you lol

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Anonymous #4 1w

apparently it is

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Anonymous #6 1w

K

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Anonymous #6 1w

And the label kinda becomes pointless

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Anonymous #6 1w

K

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Anonymous #6 1w

It seems like everyone in the comments is fighting over nothing. If definitions are truly fluid and the meaning is personal then no one should really care what others think in the first place bc all interpretations are equally personal and valid

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Anonymous #6 1w

Ok

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeye

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Anonymous evilboyprincess 1w

Ty :)

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Anonymous #11 1w

Gender isnt a hobby yall

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Anonymous #11 1w

You don’t think enough

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nah yall are creating this little exclusiv clique within the lgbt that demands respect for your nonsensicle labels while ostracizing ppl in the center from real trans identities. I know gender is a social construct but what youre doing is harmful to those with real identities. What actual life improvement do u gain from picking up this label that doesnt mean anything?

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Anonymous #11 1w

This is how transphobes talk. Also my life improved because i transitioned?? I don’t know what you want me to say rn

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Anonymous OP 1w

My friend is bigender i believe in labels that actually mean something. When you embrace labels that mean nothing you make a joke of the trans community

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Anonymous #11 1w

How the fuck is bigender real but genderfluid isn’t

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Anonymous OP 1w

Also “making a joke of the trans community” is wild. Transphobes think that REGULAR BINARY TRANS PEOPLE are all pervs who want to trans their kids. The only way to be accepted is to be cis. They will hate us anyway no matter “how trans” we are

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Anonymous OP 1w

U dont understand that there are ppl in the middle who accept transgender along the binary of genders and thats where ur losing ppl by making up oxymoronic labels. I barely understand the bigender thing but my friend presents as fem and never calls herself a he/him lesbian bc that shit just invalidates real identities that mean something

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Anonymous #11 1w

I actually don’t care about being accepted by people who accept people “along the binary of genders” seeing as I’m not binary. I won’t silence myself and who I am for acceptance by people who don’t accept ALL OF US. I would never be friends with someone who “barley understands” my identity but says it’s okay because I look feminine and use she her

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Anonymous OP 1w

Youre actually dumb and i dont think understand the words im saying. Have fun confusing yourself with your self defeating labels tho!

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Anonymous OP 1w

I accept and validate my friend’s bigender identity youre being really weird and defensive by making strange accusations of me

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Anonymous #11 1w

You literally said you barely understand, but it’s okay cause your friend is feminine and not I hate him lesbian. I don’t understand why you think I’m dumb when you’re saying you’re barely understand your identity ident.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Also like you can be any gender and use any pronouns I’m not even saying trans men lesbians I’m talking about anyone that uses I’m non-binary and I use I know women that use and lesbians I’m a lesbian. I don’t know what you want from me.

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Anonymous OP 1w

In my day-to-day life people that see me see a bunch lesbian sometimes they see a trans person like a trans guy but I’m a non-binary but lesbian I don’t understand what your little brain cannot compute about the idea of a butch lesbian

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Anonymous OP 1w

I truly don’t understand why the second that a bitch lesbian decides to be masculine and use heathen pronouns to reflect that masculinity. You get your panties in a twist and your brain explodes. I know that you guys want me to use her but I shouldn’t have to be forced to use pronouns that make me upset and make me not feel like myself because you don’t get it.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m using text to speech so some of my words are definitely wrong, but I don’t care you get what I mean

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Anonymous #11 1w

Holy fuck, touch grass once in a while. 🤣

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Anonymous #5 1w

Touching grass at the d¥ke march with other lesbians

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Anonymous OP 1w

Hell yeah, you’re rocking it!! I wish #11 got their shit together and did the same!

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No, I was responding to #11, not you! :)

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Anonymous #5 1w

You’re both pink for me and I got so confused 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

I don’t fault you for it! Sometimes I do the same. :)

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Anonymous OP 1w

I didnt say that but good job misreading what i said

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Anonymous OP 1w

Butch lesbians are women when you pretend that they can be men too ur ok with r@pe and thats weird

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Anonymous OP 1w

Just bc someone presents as butch doesnt mean theyre a man thats gender identity vs gender expression divide and but is an expression of gender not an identity

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Anonymous #11 1w

Ah, you’re going full transphobe here. Gross.

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Anonymous #11 1w

“Butch lesbians are women when you pretend that they can be men too ur okay with r@pe” What do you mean by this??

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Anonymous #11 1w

What the fuck is wrong with you.

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Anonymous #11 1w

I’m A NONBINARY BUTCH LESBIAN

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Anonymous OP 1w

I am so confused on what is happening

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Anonymous #14 1w

11 thinks that saying butch lesbians exist is r@p3?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Ok, how is it? That feels like a long time of several decisions that lead to that

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Anonymous #14 1w

I have no idea

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Anonymous OP 1w

Cool that doesnt make any sense butch is a gender expression where girls act masc

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Anonymous #10 1w

I mean thats how it sounds to the ppl in the middle who are ok with binary trans ppl (they should accept nbs that actually mean something)

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Anonymous #11 1w

Is butch not just a term for a masc style for anyone non trans? Being female isn’t required by any definition I’ve ever seen?

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Anonymous #11 1w

Not all lesbians are women. I’m nonbinary and a lesbian. Also mascs and butches are diffrent

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Anonymous #14 1w

Trans people can also be butch?

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Anonymous OP 1w

I swear for some queer people theyre playing a game of “i bet you wont accept me now with this new identity i just made up” yall need to be serious if u wanna be taken seriously

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Anonymous OP 1w

I thought butch and masc were different terms, is that wrong? I just don’t see where that’s incorrect, please tell me

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Anonymous OP 1w

What purpose does that serve in gender expression?

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Anonymous #11 1w

I’m not a woman. I am a lesbian. I am nonbinary and butch. I truly don’t get how this confuses you

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Anonymous #14 1w

Butch is all about going against your gender and expressing it in a different way so ig nbs can be butch too but being a man/he/him and calling urself butch is stupid

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Anonymous #11 1w

Using that definition I understand, thanks

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Anonymous #11 1w

Anyone can use he him pronouns. Not just men. I’m nonbinary and use he him. This is like day one queer stuff

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Anonymous OP 1w

Thats day one bs

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Anonymous OP 1w

Not sure how much more you can explain it, seems like an important difference that they don’t agree with

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Anonymous #15 1w

Yes!!

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Anonymous #14 1w

They literally said that my identity is “basically r@p3”

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Anonymous OP 1w

Oh cool! I’ve never heard of that before!

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Anonymous OP 1w

That’s what I mean This isn’t an argument, this is “your very existence is wrong”

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Anonymous OP 1w

If their mind could change, they wouldn’t be talking about it like this

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Anonymous OP 1w

Is that in some way different than just calling yourself gay? Or homosexual?

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Anonymous #14 1w

Well when I’m a man I’m gay and when I’m nonbinary I’m a lesbian. Probably I honestly don’t know my identity fully and I’m just trying stuff out rn

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Anonymous #14 1w

Yeah because gay implies your gender identity being a man or masculine and consistent attraction to men. This would specifically being accounting for their changes in gender expression are equivalent to their changes in sexual orientation. It’s a good label seeing as I had never heard of it but could still guess its meaning

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Anonymous #14 1w

I dont even know what their existence means bc its oxymoronic by its own definition

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Anonymous #11 1w

It’s really not. Your refusal to learn ≠ invalidity.

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Anonymous #11 1w

Your response doesn’t make any sense. Why would you or anyone see believing that men can be butch as defending r@pe? Like genuinely, what? What’s the correlation???

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